Sensation play can refer to a huge range of activities based on the receiving or withholding of different stimuli. For instance, one partner may blindfold the other to deprive them of their sense of sight, a form of sensory deprivation, or they may drag an ice cube along their skin, a form of sensation play known as temperature play. 8. Orgasm Control But what takes foot love to the next level and why do people worship them? Foot fetishism, also known as podophilia, is characterised by a sexual interest in feet, and being seriously turned on by toes, ankles and feet. If you’re interested in exploring foot fetishism but you don't know where to start, NYC-based Dominatrix Victoria Silver offers the following foot worship tips:

Since poor Robert did not have many attractive men in his life as he was growing up, he became extremely fixated on his father's feet. His dad had strong, hairy legs and a pair of magnificent feet. He would later realize that almost no other men's feet came close in beauty to his own dad's feet. You could say that he was blessed with seeing those gorgeous feet every day. Unfortunately, they would also cause him great sexual frustration, as his dad inadvertently displayed his soles everywhere they went and Robert had to try hard not to get a raging erection when he was around them. Fear-related adrenaline started flowing in his body as he went completely still. His dad made a grunting noise but didn't turn or get off the bed. Five minutes later the snoring started again and Robert relaxed a little. He no longer dared to peel more sheet off the feet he was staring at but continued to deliver little kisses and tongue touches to the balls of the feet and the big toe. Ten minutes later his dad jerked again and raised his head from the bed.A great way to start for more vanilla couples is a nightly foot massage. Shop together for some lotions and oils, get the lingerie on, and create a little erotic, pre-sex ritual together that makes both of you feel good. I have had my male foot fetish for as long as I can remember. As early as 4 years old maybe? As I have read along I think a lot have a similar story, my foot fetish was awoken by playing with as family member's feet when I was young. Maybe let them massage your feet first. Build up to other activities as you feel comfortable. If you ever don’t like something, speak up. Honesty is essential. If you want to bring it up to them

Foot worship is the gold-standard sex play for foot lovers. Judas, a friend and fellow kinky sex worker, has ample experience in this area. The only safe and consensual way to try paraphilia is to (consensually!) add it to your dirty talk. But, maybe wait until you know someone and their preferences before whispering, "I want to cook and eat you alive, honey." 21. Quirofilia Psychologist Sigmund Freud famously believed that people sexualise feet because they resemble penises. A more recent scientific theory comes from the neuroscientist Vilanayar Ramachandran, who believes the brain areas associated with genitalia and feet are adjacent to each other and foot fetishes stem from cross-wiring. ❤️ Cinderella syndrome One psychological element of a foot fetish is humiliation. Feet are often considered “below” people. That is, some people think of feet as a lowly body part. Or if your significant other brought it up with you, these ideas can help you decide if it’s something you’d be happy to try. If they bring it up to you

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Your feet are covered with nerve endings, and nerve endings equal greater, often more intense, sensations. If your partner is up for it, ask them to grind their feet over your genital area. They can even glide their feet over your penis or penetrate your vagina or anus with toes. Of course, literally killing and eating someone is wrong. However, kinks and fetishes are already stigmatized; we don't need to pathologize this one if someone is doing no harm. "It is usually metaphorically, or an embodied feeling, rather than a literal translation," Dr. Richmond says. "Partners will often say, 'I could just eat you alive I’m so turned on by you,' but that's driven by an urge to consume the energy of eroticism and arousal more than a real or uncontrollable desire to consume a part of the human body. Obviously, if it moves into a compulsion or biting in a way that is not consensual, this is dangerous, illegal, and certainly not sex-positive," she adds. Dominance and submission refer to a consensual erotic power exchange between two (or more) people. Although it may sound scary, due to consent and safety precautions kinkster engage in, a D/S scene can be safer than a vanilla hook-up. "Any time that we are talking about power control, that is the safest kind of sex that partners can have because there's so much communication, trust, and vulnerability built into these kinds of exchanges and sexual experiences," says sex therapist and author of Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life Dr. Holly Richmond. 16. Autonepiophilia

Quirofilia is one of those kinks that sounds more far-out than it is: It simply refers to an attraction to hands. Whether you go for big, hairy hands, or soft, dainty manicured ones, considering how much we use our hands during sex, it's a highly relatable kink. 22. Pregnancy While people often use the terms "fetish" and "kink" interchangeably, a kink means an activity or behavior that someone enjoys that exists outside the "norm" of "traditional" sex, such as incorporating handcuffs or even balloons. Think of the differences this way: If someone's kink is bondage, they probably get incredibly excited when they're tied up. If someone has a bondage fetish, their entire sexuality may revolve around restraint. (There's also the category of turn-ons: things that simply arouse a person.)I have literally had guys who have had thier feet serviced before that they have never met any one like me and that my worshiping skills were an "incredibly unique, sensual and a completely unforgettable experience"

Your partner may have a lot of questions. Be ready to discuss and engage in an honest dialogue. A willingness to talk about when and how you discovered this interest is good. If your partner has a foot fetish, they may want you to treat them like a human footrest. They find satisfaction in letting you have domination over them so they can worship at your feet. Open wiiiiiiiide,” Trevor sang, pressing his toes harder against my lips and squeezing tighter on my nose. “Say ahhhhhhhhhh!” Fast forward the present and I must have worshipped in give or take 1000+ male foot worshiping sessions, with maybe a little under 50% of these being repeat meet ups that I have worshiped these men's feet. These men have have varied in ages from 24 up to 60 years old. (Not very much into guys much younger than 24, sorry kiddos)

The thought of having to smell those feet up close made me gag. There have been times when he slipped out of his shoes, and almost instantly the putrid smell of his feet filled the room. It’s something I’ve had to tolerate for years. Like what?” I asked, and the two of us sat for a moment in though. “How about...the loser has to smell the winner’s feet!” Spectrophilia refers to having a thing for ghosts because sometimes humans aren't worth it. It usually involves the fantasy of a spirit, but sometimes people believe they actually have sex with one at night or while they sleep. Traditionally, a succubus refers to a female sex ghost, and an incubus is a male ghost that has sex with humans as they sleep. 15. Dominance and Submission Robert grew up in a religion that taught strict self-control and self-mastery. Some of its teachings included strict prohibition from masturbation and no sex outside of (hetero) marriage. Robert began to eroticize chastity and the denial of sexual pleasure from a young age. He felt incredibly guilty about his constant need to jerk off and he felt especially bad that his thoughts were about men and their feet. It was one thing to wank to the thoughts of women who he could seek out for marriage, but another story to fantasize about something that was completely forbidden and could never be accepted within the realms of his faith.