I’m cautiously optimistic about it, but every time J think about it happening I get so excited it’s ridiculous. But as said above introduce more toys slowly and once she atarts to enjoy them, then start droping hints. when i got back picked things up with him as friends with benefits after about 6 months we decided to be an offical couple even though the whole time i knew him there was something more there. Lacks even the most basic consideration for wifey -- Actually willing to drag *her* into this shit as an accessory, just to keep being able to say "no homo" to himself.

And if two people can’t work something out, eventually someone has to let it go or leave the relationship. Wife wants BWC (big white cock): Same as above, use the dildo on your wife, have a hung bull come round, or have her show you how she uses her dildo. This is a pretty easy idea for you to try out but it’s something all of you should try, even if you are far down in your cuckolding/hotwifing journey. Heh, it's cute how boys will literally build up an ENTIRE FRAMEWORK of fantasies just so they can (1) stay in that closet (2) pretend that "playing with the other guy" isn't THEIR fantasy.If you aren’t comfortable doing this with your real friend, try using a trusted bull to roleplay this scenario with you. Unlike the [not-so-]secretly gay boys AKA cuck fetishists, these guys have no interest in ANY interaction with the other boys -- other than playing director *during* the fun, and playing bouncer *after* it. We really hope that you find a new fantasy or scenario that you like the sound of and if yours isn’t included on our list be sure to add it using the comment section down below. I don't think she'd be adverse to a black guy but not sure she's be into the fantasy of the whole thing. I must say that I was somewhat puzzled by the behavior myself, but I and many others have come to understand it and even admire it.

In my case, I was not the one driving it - but I agreed to it as an alternative to what wasn't happening in my marriage as was. I was jealous at first when I started dating her because of the constant attention from other men and her "internet fame".I will also add that my wife has always been the "good" girl type wife, and I find that attractive as well in a general sense. I would say that dildos would be a no-no…now as for introducing another man into the scenario for you to watch her with…I would try and get a conversation going with her…(but not in the bedroom…)about fantasies…maybe porn you could say you’ve watched or “heard” about…that you thought you’d like to watch together? This subreddit discusses news, views, and issues around polyamory, polyfidelity, poly people, and related issues. It is a good fantasy, but there is risk as this couple found out when the bull impregnated the wife. Freud would have a field day with these guys: repressed homosexuality, low self-esteem, fear of rejection or abandonment (and unconsciously arranging to feel in charge of it), performance anxiety (and out-sourcing responsibility to the other guy).