As we continued to play, Luke leaned into my ear and whispered, “Do you have any lube?” Yikes! Does he really want this? Who will top? Who will bottom? My mind was reeling, and my heart started fluttering again. About half of people (51%) said that they have never enjoyed pain during anal sex. More than 100 people (36%) said that they have enjoyed pain during anal sex. What kind of pain do you like? I really try to please as a bottom, so I got on all fours as I felt him slide into me from behind. He slid in all the way and then started pounding me before pushing me flat on to the bed. He thrust in and shuddered, pausing for a second before continuing to pound me. I didn’t think anything of it. After about 20 minutes of pounding he put his arm over my shoulder and asked if I was enjoying myself. We also asked for your tips on how to prevent pain during anal sex. Most people mentioned the importance of using plenty of lube before and during anal sex. “[Use] LOTS of lube from the jump and add more maybe even if you don’t think you need it,” said one respondent. Another said, “Too much lube is almost enough.”

We asked how people would explain pleasurable pain during anal sex to someone who has never felt it before. As always, Franco’s naked body is drowning in a sea of homoerotic undertones. But, hey, he can’t help it! Despite his marital ties to actress Alison Brie since 2017, Franco’s unabashed love for queerbaiting shines through. Dave has been quoted saying the following about his funny bone, which he lets hang loose in this video: Enjoying the feeling that you’re being pushed to your body’s limits (“I like to be pushed to the edge of pain, so that the intensity is high and my senses feel like they’re on overload.”) The mobile phone video surfaced on Thursday, three days after the assault, and has been circulated on social media. "When I came to know of the video, I tried to kill myself," the boy told NDTV today.We continued to kiss, and he put his hand under my shirt and caressed me hard. It was rough but strong and caring at the same time. We continued to kiss passionately and rub on each other. And, before you knew it, we were both stripped down to our underwear. Enjoying pain as the result of being dominated (“I enjoy the pain because it puts me in a submissive head space. I feel like I’m being used for someone else’s pleasure.”) Most people (64%) who have ever topped said that they have had a partner stop them during sex because it hurt too much. (One person cheekily replied, “Yes, due to my size,” to this question.) Do you enjoy the pain? The rest of the night was amazing. It was my first time, and I was with the man of my dreams. It did hurt a bit at first, but when I took Luke’s advice and began relaxing, it felt amazing. I had a sub who liked rough anal sex and that didn’t want me to use a lot of lube.” –Survey respondent About the pain & anal sex survey

One person described it as “like getting a tattoo: It hurts, but you know you still love it.” Another person compared it to popping a painful pimple: “The first few seconds can sting, but the sense of relief and endorphins rush immediately afterwards floods out the momentary ‘pain.’” A few other people compared it to the pain you experience when working out. “It hurts because it’s a muscle being stretched. When you first work out, your muscles hurt because they’re being stretched, but you feel good. Similar good feeling but exponentially better.” About 80% of people identified as gay/homosexual. Other sexual orientations reported were bisexual (9%), straight/heterosexual (8%), asexual (1%), and “other” (mostly pansexual and queer). Most people (96%) reported that they have anal sex (or have had anal sex in the past). For people having or who had anal sex, 52% reported being “versatile” (being the top and bottom), 29% reported being the bottom (the receptive partner during anal sex), and 15% reported being the top (the penetrative partner during anal sex). Do you experience or cause pain? A 16-year-old boy screams as he is stripped and brutalized by a group of young men in an extremely disturbing video filmed in southwest Delhi's Inderpuri area.Be patient with your partner and learn to listen and communicate during sex (“Don’t be afraid to be a bossy bottom.”)