Xaviera Hollander may not have invented sex, but she is certainly one of its most outspoken proponents. In general, I’m always a bit skeptical about a book on how to please a woman sexually written by a woman. Now that we know you won’t be spinning your tongue like a DJ booth when going down on your lady, let’s talk about how to eat pussy the right way. As a woman this book also helped me to know that I wasn't alone in the way I was feeling that I am not weird or strange and that all or a lot of woman feel the same way I do and experience the same problems that I do.

So if you’re trying to take your love life to the next level, we suggest adding this book to the mix. An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Having had such positive and negative experiences with these types of books I knew that just because a book gets published it does not mean that they are of any quality! He does use a lot of literary analogies, whichconsidering that it begins as a part-romp, part-rant through her bizarre yet amusing childhood as one of seven siblings and it was a little underwhelming and frustrating that the most edifying comments were made in the last few chapters (strangely about childbirth, Lady Gaga and abortion - all separately I should add) but the book is still worth reading even if only for the laugh out loud moments and the occasional tender insight into her role as a mother and wife. In fact, we added this classic sexual guidebook to our list of the 25 Best Books for Men to read before they die.

Our resident sex expert, Vanessa Carlisle, a dominatrix with a PhD in Creative Writing, Literature and Gender Studies from the University of Southern California, recommends this book to anyone who’s “kink curious and looking to self educate. He wanted to make a positive difference in women's lives, and so spent a great deal of time compiling information on how to please a woman. They are often expected to 'just know' how to please a woman, while women are frequently reluctant to say what they really want. To be a great lover, to provide mind-blowing sex time and time again, you must first understand and come to grips with the Holy Trinity of the Clitorii.You will not find advice in here about how to attract and seduce a mate; you won’t hear me telling you to brush your teeth before a kissing session. It is also the fastest way for you to learn what you need to learn about her so you can do what you need to do to make it safe for her heart clit.

Simple, you get the information directly from a woman who is willing to share what you can do to become a lover that satisfies his girl every time. That being said it can help the woman relax about the way she is feeling while the man learns how to help her feel even better.

La plupart du temps, tout ce que ce livre explique c’est le « comment séduire une femme » ou « comment entretenir la flamme au sein du couple ». Sex Talks" by Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin is a transformative guide that delves into the five crucial conversations that can revolutionize your love life. Discussing everything from pop culture and literature to science and porn, this masterful book by Katherine Angel is a complete reassessment of stereotypes about female desire, in the best way possible. I'll tell you as honestly as I can how we tick, think, crave sex, have aversions to sex, and drive ourselves crazy over you. This book will help you unlock new levels of sexual knowledge, and you, and your partner, will wonder how you ever lived without it.

In the book she addresses numerous subjects from flirting and relationship dynamics to contraceptive and sexual technique. I also realised that i did not hug and embrace like close girlfriends do to each other because guys don't really do that, and that i'm not messed up or abnormal for feeling a little neglected when girls don't hug me (no i'm not an obese troll, i've been told by multiple girls that i am attractive). In my opinion, one of the things that make this book work so well is the author's holistic approach to the female mind and body.The book addresses a wide range of disabilities from asthma to back pain, chronic fatigue and hearing or visual impairment. Caitlin Moran's first taste of writing success was winning a Dillons young readers' contest for an essay on Why I Like Books, aged 13.